# Preface
I’m not going to insult your intelligence by suggesting this is a historically accurate recounting of my life. Obviously I can’t remember every encounter minute-by-minute. However, I have a really good memory and I do remember the broad strokes, and as you read you will see that there are some profoundly life-changing moments that left such a huge impression on me that I recall them with complete clarity.
I also kept journals for many years because I did plan on writing this eventually. So, what I’ve done is highlight the broad strokes (please forgive the pun) and fill in the details with what I know I would have done at the time. This is meant to be a light read, so I didn’t dwell too much on the inevitable broken hearts and hurt feelings that are part of the human experience.
But before we get to the good stuff, I want to clarify a few things.
First, and it will become very obvious when you start reading, is yes, I’m a sex addict. There are long time spans in my life where I was completely consumed with satisfying my very selfish need for validation through physical relationships to the point that it affected my career and personal relationships. I am not proud of this, but this book is meant to highlight the best parts of the worst part of me. So, I’m not going to dive into the shallow pool of my psychological issues because they are easily understood by anyone who grew up in a household devoid of family attention and affection. I was the classic unsupervised kid whose only real interaction with my parents was when they were angry and yelling at me because they had suddenly been reminded they had a kid due to some stupid thing I had done that required their attention. But enough of that.
Second, I will happily admit that I am not the best looking guy in the world. However, I learned early to minimize my shortcomings and focus on my strengths. In my case, my biggest shortcoming is that I have an “okay” looking face. I have been told I am “handsome” many times over my life, and I’ll leave it to you to decide what kind of person you’d describe as “handsome”. My strengths are that I’m quite tall, around 6’6″. I also have good genetics and my body responds very favorably to weight training and exercise. So when you read these, be aware that most people were with me because of how I look from the neck down.
Third, I have sanitized the descriptions of sex in the book to enhance the entertainment experience. And, there is a lot of anal sex in here and it may seem like it was a common occurrence in my life, but the opposite is true. The anal sex I’ve described here represents about 75% of how many times I experienced it in real life. So, not that often. Also, anal sex requires a great deal of care and patience and one should always practice it safely. You will notice my early experiences were unprotected, and that’s because we didn’t know any better. Later on in life I smartened up. Finally, anal sex can be messy and I’ve left out the mishaps, surprises, and any other unpleasantries in the name of keeping things sexy. I have tried to focus on the good stuff and minimize the not-so-good stuff.
Fourth, you will see that I repeatedly make reference to the fact that I produce huge amounts of semen in these stories. This is my one true talent. I have read that the average amount is a tablespoon or two, and in my experience most guys are in that range. I’ve never measured, but if I had to guess I would say my range is five to ten times that much, with the higher end being in my younger years. It has been a source of amusement, delight, and disgust throughout my life depending who you ask.
Fifth, for me attraction is a light switch. I am either very attracted to someone, or not at all. While I am clearly bisexual, I never really thought of myself that way or incorporated it in to my identity. In some cases the people I was attracted to were male and other times they were female, and in either case I wanted to experience everything I could with them. I have encountered some very attractive people of both genders in my life and not felt a single flicker of desire for them. I guess I have a very specific type that’s hard to define, but my brain knows it when it sees it.
Sixth, I have obviously changed names and professions of everyone involved in the name of anonymity, except where the profession is important to the story. I don’t talk to anyone from my past, but if you do end up reading this and think that you’re the one being described, it’s unlikely. However, if you are the one being described, know that there’s a lot of stories I left out because they were inconsequential or boring. So, if you are in here, it’s because out of all my experiences I felt compelled to share yours with everyone.
Seventh, let’s talk about sexually transmitted diseases for a second. I had my share of scares and minor issues over the years, but I had a rule to always use protection unless I trusted the person implicitly. While you will see I didn’t make use of protection when I was younger, I figured it out very quickly. And later on in life, when testing became easier and more convenient, I got tested regularly. The net result is that I managed to avoid anything serious or permanent. And, my other rule is, have a shower and wash everything off immediately after sex. I know it’s nice to cuddle and relax afterwards, but you don’t want to let potentially bad things have a chance to gain a foothold. Go cuddle in the shower. And ladies, go pee immediately afterwards. Yeah, it’s not sexy, but it’s better than a urinary tract infection.
Eighth, these are my accurate memories. I’m not going to insult your intelligence or ask you to suspend your disbelief that I had all this crazy sex with all these different people over the span of roughly twenty years. However, as I mentioned earlier, I know now that I am a sex addict and my behavior from my earliest days belies that fact. I got really good at finding like-minded people and really good at recognizing the people that were worth investing time in. The other part of this is that yes, in 2021, the internet has democratized hook-up culture and now apps like Grindr, Tinder, and others enable people to order anonymous sex on demand. However, in the early 90’s through the ‘10’s, sites like this were much more rare and required searching and research to seek out. As a result, the people on these sites were typically real people who were invested in finding and meeting people to satisfy whatever was missing in their life. And while the ratios on these sites were probably 54.5% men, 54.5% bots, and 1% women, there was still a lot less competition because these sites were relatively unknown.
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